How About, First and Foremost, We Conform to Not Suck the Pleasure From Their Lives

I used to be sitting on a bench close to a playground merry-go-round watching our three and four-year-olds play. A pair of boys determined they wished a spin. They mounted the equipment, then considered one of them turned to me, “Trainer Tom, you push us.”I answered, “Sorry, I am busy sitting right here. You may…